Anxiety can affect the way you think, feel, relate to others, and move through everyday life. You may find yourself constantly anticipating what could go wrong, replaying conversations, second-guessing decisions, avoiding situations that feel uncomfortable, or struggling to quiet your mind.
Sometimes anxiety is obvious. Other times, it can look like perfectionism, overpreparing, irritability, difficulty making decisions, or feeling responsible for keeping everything under control.
At Rooted and Rising Psychology, I provide anxiety therapy for adults in downtown San Diego and through secure telehealth throughout California.
Everyone experiences anxiety from time to time. It becomes more concerning when worry or fear begins to consistently interfere with your ability to live the life you want.
You might notice:
Persistent or difficult-to-control worry
Overthinking or rumination
Difficulty relaxing or being present
Avoiding people, places, or situations
Physical tension or feeling on edge
Trouble sleeping
Difficulty making decisions
Reassurance-seeking or repeatedly checking
Fear of making mistakes or disappointing others
Anxiety that affects work or relationships
You don't have to experience every one of these concerns for therapy to be helpful.
Anxiety often develops within a larger context. Past experiences, relationships, expectations, stress, self-criticism, uncertainty, and learned ways of coping can all influence how anxiety shows up.
Rather than simply trying to eliminate uncomfortable feelings, therapy can help you understand the patterns that keep anxiety going and develop different ways of responding.
In therapy, we can work together to:
Understand your individual experience of anxiety
Identify thoughts and patterns that contribute to worry
Notice avoidance and other coping strategies
Develop greater tolerance for uncertainty and discomfort
Practice responding to anxious thoughts differently
Explore how anxiety affects relationships and daily life
Develop practical strategies for managing difficult moments
Clarify what you want your life to look like beyond anxiety
The goal isn't necessarily to never feel anxious. Anxiety is a normal human experience. Instead, therapy can help you develop greater flexibility so that anxiety doesn't consistently determine what you do or don't do.
I take a collaborative and individualized approach to therapy. Depending on your needs and goals, our work may incorporate cognitive behavioral strategies, mindfulness, exploration of relationships and patterns, and other evidence-informed approaches.
We'll focus on understanding what is happening for you rather than applying a one-size-fits-all treatment plan.
Anxiety can have a significant impact on relationships. You may worry about how others perceive you, fear conflict, seek reassurance, withdraw when overwhelmed, or find yourself overanalyzing interactions.
Therapy can provide an opportunity to understand these patterns and develop more satisfying ways of relating to yourself and others.
If you're located in California, secure telehealth can provide access to therapy from the privacy and convenience of your own space.
In-person anxiety therapy is also available in downtown San Diego.
No. You don't need to have a formal diagnosis to reach out about therapy. We can talk about what you're experiencing and determine whether therapy may be a good fit.
Therapy can help you understand the patterns behind overthinking and practice responding to thoughts without becoming consumed by them.
If worry, fear, avoidance, or overthinking is interfering with your relationships, work, sleep, or ability to participate in activities that matter to you, it may be worth exploring therapy.
If anxiety has been taking up more space in your life than you'd like, therapy can provide a place to begin understanding it differently.